Thanks! I didn’t want to overwhelm with details at first, but I probably could have added more detail. 
Ok, structure but stretch. I don’t care if they’re soft (I don’t really like soft clothing) as long as they are cool/bearable when it’s 100 degrees and I’m walking a big ass dog. Ha.
Closer to jeans or more structured and “dressed up” but made for outdoors/function, less business.
Not very feminine, but structured in a way to look decent on my afab body. Thicker waistband, high rise, illusion of a zipper at least (or a real one), pockets on side and back, full length, not really into cargo styles but maybe there’s an ok cargo style out there for me?
These are somewhat close
Like
• Structured appearance of zipper
• Back and side pockets
• Lightweight
• Comes in black (I need to be realistic with myself, I’ll probably want black or dark blue even if that’s silly in the summer).
• Fairly gender neutral looking
Dislike
• Ankle length, I need full length or I look 8inches shorter, I swear.
• No belt loops
• I do kinda wish they went to XXL. XL will fit, but what if I want them baggier?
• The structure of the butt is good, but I wish the waist band was thicker and more structured. I don’t mind the waistband doohickey thing, but the waist band looks like it’s like 1/4” : /
• probably going to sound like “whoosh whoosh whoosh” when I walk
• Reviews are reporting that the waist closes with Velcro, which will wear out in like a month basically.
These are maybe a little closer, but look a little more like workout pants/less structured to me. Plus they’re mid rise. They have the thick waistband, but it’s floppity and lacks waist structure. When I view them in reviews on bodies similar to mine they don’t give the body aesthetic I want - likely due to the lack of structure and low waist. I’d be pulling them back up all day once I start sweating in them. Bummer.
Truly I look and feel best in jeans, and if I had it my way I’d wear them 365, but it’s simply too hot here. I’m already getting hot enough to feel a bit queasy when wearing my jeans all day, and it’s only May. Ooof.
These are even closer still, but no back pockets is pretty much a dealbreaker for me. When I view these in reviews on bodies maybe above a 28” waist they are not high rise enough to accommodate.
Also these aren’t very “attractive” generally (I do not know what I mean, lol sorry, it’s a feeling). But these are probably close-ish. The “wanoga” Columbia style is similar to these but with back pockets, but still doesn’t quite fit my hunt.
If these had back pockets, had a zipper that actually went the length of the front panel (weird), had a little more structure, didn’t have gold buttons, and looked like they’d last more than 45 days before ripping, they would be kinda close!
These if they had a MUCH higher waist and much more structured waistband. It’d also be cool if the sizes went to 16, same reasons for wanting both L, XL, and XXL - offers me a tight option, a standard fit option, and a baggier option. Those are probably my only complaints with these. They look lightweight, pockets yep, come in long and in black… these are close. 
These again are darn close. I want one size bigger as an option, back pockets, and a much higher waist. But very close.
I do think in addition to outdoor wear retailers I should look at scrub pants (some are more structured I think) and tactical/range pants.