Yes, you get more drape with a bigger needle, and that will likely cause your cables not to pop.
Interesting that you have trouble with US 2s and your hands. I find my hands hate US 8 and above (5mm for the rest of the world). I do socks on 2.25mm and it is very comfortable. But everyone has different ways for their bodies to betray them.
I’m obviously up for a knit-along. And for talking about what might be the right yarn, though I’m more familiar with wool options than warm weather things.
I’ll knit whatever with y’all. I need to start hunting for a nice warm wrap to make to go with my bridesmaid’s dress for this fall. I’m having visions of a mustard/orangey yellow dress with a nice wine colored wrap since the directions are to wear fall colors…
I’d been thinking about making a wrap myself - I think I want to frog my owl sweater, it just doesn’t fit right. So, there’s plenty of repurposable yarn there…