Forgive me for I have spent

[Illathrael]

Gentle reminder that we do have an ongoing discussion about this here:

On the fringes of violation

Friends, forum owners, moderators and posters… How can we as a team better flag and respond to posts that are not cool. Hurtful. Ist but not trying to be ist. As an example, I recently complained about my male partner in a way that easily led into midandrist tropes. In this case, I was the journal owner and not emotionally in danger and felt confident speaking up. But if it had been me stating the tropes, on a forum where the loudest voices don’t seem to be het cis men, then maybe no one would…