Totally not concise ramblings based on Covid conversations Iâve had this week:
My mom is relatively sure she wonât see me again face to face in her lifetime. Itâs such a weird thing, being far enough into a life to accept likely outcomes without fear. I havenât accepted this yet even though logically I know itâs likely true.
I was talking with a friend about how part of the cultural/social response to COVID is informed by the majority of people alive in the US never having been through something that affects their autonomy. My mom was born in 1933 so she definitely remembers WWII and all the restrictions and terror that went with it, especially living in a city identified as a Japanese target.
This time around she is rather blaseâ about how hard vs not hard life is - they have internet so other than not seeing people in person their day to day life hasnât changed.
This came up again tonight at work talking with parents of early elementary kiddos that are worried about their academic progress.
The kiddos whose parents are worrying are going to be totally fine, because their world as young adults launching on their own will definitively not be the world we have now.
Itâs also been a weird thing among my greater friend group that the people I would have thought would most easily accept that The World Is Different Now, the people familiar with a huge range of sci fi and thousands of stories of one small thing being the Thing that changes humanity, have turned out to be the people most resistant to losing ânormalâ comfort.
Which back to my mom - she remembers reading Rocket Ship Galileo and knowing it would happen, where all her friends poked fun and said there was no way humans would ever figure out space travel, that it was just a fantasy escape from how shitty the world turned out to be.
My mom also anticipates the US as a government entity to fall within my kidsâ lifetime. Five years ago I wouldnât have seen how because I would have pictured war. Yet weâre already selling piece by piece to other powers that are not really allies if you have a historical attention span longer than the US.
Add in climate change and the world is absolutely going to look different in a decade than it does now. Noticeably.
Iâve become wickedly pragmatic about mortality and human occupation of earth since the first lockdown, when I went on a morning walk with my Person and the birds were going CRAZY at the first signs of spring. They were carrying on as normal. Avian flu wiping out household chickens? Carry on until you die.
/end random rantish thoughts
Working in a hospital right now ainât great, yâall. Even one that is not a designated Covid unit.