My 13 year old is 13. I assume he’s watched some porn, and I wouldn’t expect or want him to tell me about it. But I have told him that porn is not a good place to learn about sex because the sex in porn is bad sex. So he asked where he can learn about good sex.
I learned about sex from having sex with a far more experienced and very selfish partner. It sucked. Most of my friends had similarly terrible early experiences.
Is there somewhere I can direct this research-driven child for this kind of thing? Is there some sub-reddit that isn’t gross and terrible?