Hello! I am scuba, over here via MMM land. I am starting a new chapter of my life overseas this year as an expat, employed by the USG. And I got married this past summer, and am expecting my first child this coming summer! So lots of changes at once. My husband and I don’t combine finances since we got married later in life, but since he moved over here with me for my job (and has no plans to work - which is great since he’s better at household management) I am now paying for our joint household expenses: groceries, restaurants when we go out together, cleaning supplies, vacations, soon to be baby stuff, etc. So I’m still adjusting to that aspect, but we now have free rent so it more than balances out I think. Soon I should be able to get a feel for our normal monthly budget now that I think most of the normal “moving” expenses have passed. Anyway, I’m hoping I’ll be able to save enough here that if I want, I could have the option to FIRE after the next ~3 years here… we shall see!