Diapers - I did used cloth, and our hospitals require you to bring in a package of disposable newborn. We ended up doing disposable at night forever. Friends gifted me a diaper service and I highly recommend that to try cloth without washing.
Diaper stuff - wipes or washcloths and squirt bottle. I dropped out of cloth wipes. I like water wipes and rascal and friends wipes
Diaper cream - Vaseline? And I did sudocrem but any zinc will do
The plastic or vinyl change things to throw wherever for changes.
Unscented soap, laundry detergent etc
Swaddles, burp cloths (pre fold diapers), face cloths, towels
Outerwear as appropriate
Ten each of onesies and PJs up to six months, super cheap at once upon a child or from Facebook
Socks and mittens as appropriate
Sleeping and walking - they are the same thing
Oh man, I’m in a fight on babycentre right now because I said I’m not into using the car seat on a stroller or in the house.
Car seat - whatever is certified I don’t care
Stroller - I need one with a bassinet for the first six months, a tiny folding one for after and we got our SUV as a double (Thule chariot). The uppababy bassinet IS certified as a safe sleep surface for off the stroller in most countries. To my knowledge no others are
Crib - I did Ikea crib and mattress, all new cribs here are safe. And I trust ikea for mattress non toxicity.
Two or three sheets and a mattress protector
This time I’m doing a bassinet for our room and travel probably fisher price stow n go
Baby wearing. I was given a bunch of wraps and slings and tried and found what works for me
The yoga ball - not just for when your pelvis hurts too much to sit! Also for bouncing with baby while sleeping upright! I also hear rocking chairs are a thing
A swaddle blanket on the floor
Research the safe sleep seven - planned cosleeping is MUCH safer than emergency cosleeping. I did the first few times on a yoga mat on the floor, until I knew what was safe for me
Seriously, if you dive into one topic, it should be safer sleep. Because if your plan a fails you will be too tired to research
Breastfeeding and not
A travel mug and an insulated straw cup to have water and tea/coffee with you at all times
Some hand me down nursing clothes and bras so you know what to buy online in an emergency. Personally I only need one or two outfits for appointments and visitors because I would rather haul a t shirt up
A bottle in case you need it
Read the instructions on formula once in case you need it
A friend who has done this and will answer text messages. Preferably one in Australia also for time zone issues
Protein bars or Lara bars
A baby thermometer and nail clippers and snot sucker or the salt water pods
Regarding Amazon… only get stuff from known brands that are safety certified. They have a huge problem with allowing third parties to sell baby and toddler gear that isn’t safe.
IKEA is aweso because they try to meet a bunch of international regulations and are cheap and fit my vibe of being a cheap hippy - Montessori style wood stuff at a good price etc.
We did regular backpacks for diapers and I did buy wet bags. Regular laundry baskets and garbage bins, not diaper pails