Love that!
Problematic cis men: “I wanna see boobs!”
Also problematic cis men: “Not like THAT!”
TIL
Just skimmed this and I’m vaguely familiar with the author and think it’s a good place to start.
In my personal life I’ve actually often encountered pushback because my mask is supremely confident and easygoing. Like a trust fund Vail ski bro in the body of a sad ex evangelical rust belt girl? Lol
Stop assuming gender on the phone . I really wish sir/ma’am was removed from all customer service interactions, both for binary trans people like me with voices that are coded opposite our gender, and for all my lovely non-binary peeps. Phone conversations are one of the only places I still get misgendered, and it sucks, because I rarely want to spend the spoons on correcting someone I’ll probably never speak to again.
And some cis people have unusual voices. This is an everyone wins situation.
True too! I forgot to mention that
I would really, really like to live in a country where I don’t have to fear my existence being erased. My rage as this rapid progression of murderous bigotry being put into law is incalculable. And it’s coming for all oppressed intersectional identities if we don’t stop it NOW.
Nothing red state legislatures do surprises me anymore but that’s really, really creepy to extend restriction to identity based healthcare to 25. By that logic we could just start setting age boundaries on childbirth or organ transplants.
And it won’t stop at 25, that’s the thing. There are numerous assholes on record wanting to ban trans people’s very existence.