Gold Star Parenting

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:clap::clap::clap::clap:

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You are the champion, no time for losers

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Iā€™m so glad your phone didnā€™t run out of that one!! lol

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Okay so this is kind of a second-hand win but I get the benefit and my kid gets the benefit so Iā€™ll take it. Over the summer we sent Kiddo to an OT camp and part of what they did was talk about feelings and what ā€œfills up your bucketā€ and how some things can drain your bucket.

After our toilet flooded and we had to pull up all the flooring in our primary bedroom while Kiddo was at school, it made it an easy conversational short cut to explain the situation and then say ā€œmommy and daddy have empty buckets today, so we need you to be on your best behavior this afternoon.ā€

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I have absolutely told my kids this from time to time - not in those words, but yes same message. I really think itā€™s important for kids to hear / see us express our feelings & moods.

Excellent work!

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I love this shared language! Sorry about the flood :frowning:

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Thereā€™s a book, in case anyone is interested. And now there are songs and videos and all sorts of content based on the bucket-filling book. Itā€™s good stuff and elementary schools everywhere have incorporated it in their lessons.

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Thanks! Iā€™ll have to check that one out. It also feels appropriate for (American) Thanksgiving.

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Baby (1) got his RSV shot and (2) I took him to the doctor by myself! :trophy::trophy::trophy::trophy::trophy::trophy::trophy::trophy::trophy::trophy::trophy:

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Omg! So jealous you got it :sob::sob::sob::sob: so happy for you though.

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Itā€™s so cool and amazing that the RSV shot exists now!!!

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We just made it, cut off at my clinic is under 2 months! Which I know is more loosey goosey than plenty of other places.

I have a theory that itā€™s relatively easier to get vaccines in CO because of the combo of functional state gov that believes in vaccines, but a population with enough vaccine skeptics that there is less competition than other blue states have. But who knows, this is based on no evidence.

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Weā€™re under 2 months, thereā€™s just none here whatsoever. The state has frozen any ordering and my clinic has none.

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Are the rsv shots available for regular adults? My (over 65) dad just got his, he spends time with two little kids, one of whom has CF.

I probably wonā€™t get the rsv shot even if I could because Iā€™m never around babies or elderly, but Iā€™m just curious.

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I hate it! Sorry.

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So two different things here- tiny babies get an antibody shot. Pregnant women and older people get a true vaccine. (End product versus code to make end product yourself). Sub 65, no shot. I missed the pregnant lady shot by a couple weeks since they hadnā€™t even heard about the approval (grrrr) and then now we canā€™t get the antibodies for the baby herself.

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Anecdotally around here even after it was approved none of the pregnant folks I know were able to get it due to supply issues. They were told their babies should be able to get the antibody shot directly but thatā€™s not available for healthy full-term babies either. :rage: (I mean, rightfully it should go to the highest risk babies but Iā€™m upset about the whole supply chain)

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The cutoff is 6 months at my pediatrician. I didnā€™t realize that was so high relative to CO. They wanted to offer it up to 8 months but apparently couldnā€™t purchase enough supply. We are a pretty vaccine-compliant state and city so I imagine the reason they even got six monthsā€™ worth is proximity to pharma industry?

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I took two kids to the dentist at the same time, I gave them 4h outside including the before bed outside and overall am amazing.

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