De-Boobaning (Top Surgery) And Other Gender Shiz

But - Milk Duds seem necessary IMHO.

I will gladly contribute to your treasure chest.

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I am very impressed that you are going through this big thing and are actually asking for help from people who care about you while going through this big thing. I still haven’t figured out how to do that. Asking for help is scary. So, anyway, I am proud of you!

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:heart:
It’s something I’m being taught every day.

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Maybe small art supplies, like a mix of 50 different art pencils or something? I know even something like fancy markers or paints would get way too $ though.

Hope your email gets you what you want out of this :slight_smile:

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I mail you thing???

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YOU ARE A VERY BUSY NEW MOM.

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I make someone share your address and mail things

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Lolololol
Okay fine I’ll pm the address to you. :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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I Halp???

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Oh good lord yOU ARE ALL TOO NICE

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Don’t leave me out!

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I volunteer as person-who-can-mail-thing!

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Also me. Because I have like a dozen of your postcards with drawings from Duckling that I, uh, forgot to send to you last year :flushed:

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You are all amazing, generous, beautiful people.
If anyone wants my address who does not have it, please DM me.

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51 days until surgery

Alternative time units

51 days can be converted to one of these units:

4,406,400 seconds
73,440 minutes
1224 hours
51 days
7 weeks and 2 days
13.93% of 2020
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I would also like it please :slight_smile:

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YAY 51 days!!! :tada::tada::tada::tada::tada::star:

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50 days!

General Feelings: Ahhhh my brain feels like it’s full of bees. Lots of questioning and fears and self-doubt the last few days.

I spent some time this morning talking with a friend who got top surgery approx 4 or 5 weeks ago. I’m closer with zir spouse but friends with both of them, and gosh it was nice to chat about specific fears with someone who is also not a trans guy who went through this process. Ze is non binary and had some of the same goals and the same concerns I did. :heart: Ze also didn’t hate their chest, or feel male. Ze also wanted to be more neutral and feel free.

And ze are so, so, so happy with zir body now. :heart:
It was beautiful and refreshing and calmed the bees in my brain a little bit.

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That’s awesome :slight_smile: Nothing like positive personal testimony to reassure you.

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Brains are amazing.

I’m spending $8,000 and undergoing major surgery to do this.

You think that would make it clear to myself that this is something I want

and yet…

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